U name it

With all that I've done,

All the disobedient,

All the wrong things,

All the incomplete things,

All the things I did not do,

God is still by my side. Showering me with safety, love, mind. Maysallah.

I am such a small creature with all of HIS creations yet HE is still listening, forgiving, giving. Masyallah.

God is great.

Aku sekecil-kecil buih di lautan DIA dengarkan

Aku serendah-rendah manusia DIA maafkan

Aku selalu kekurangan DIA tetap masih berikan, masih tetap dia sayangkan.

Masyallah. Aku empunya kau tuhan.

All the things I did not on purpose,

KAU lah yang selayaknya menghakimi aku.

Nabi Muhammad S.A.W rasulku.

Dewa 19- Kuldesak

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DL74Nx9oYBc&feature=related

Behaviors

Contoh orang kita:

" Jangan main benda tu NANTI bersepah NANTI boleh pecah NANTI ayah kena ganti beli baru."

Some people just say too much ' Jangan' and worry on things that may AND may not happen. That is, worry for things that they are unsure of.

Mother: "Why worry things that is not happening yet? 90% that you worry doesn't happen." Thanks mother. Ini saya cuba pegang.

My arwah Embah (grandma) would personally advice people who says things such as " Jangan lari nanti jatuh. Jangan main nanti pecah.." etc. She would advice " Cakap la elok2. Kata-kata tu kan doa."

My arwah Embah is right. I have witnessed situations where an adult said to a child " Jangan lompat-lompat nanti jatuh kepala luka." An hour later, the same child knocked his forehead on a table and got 7 stitches from the doctor.

With words, we should think and arrange it properly.

Contoh kita boleh adjust ayat-ayat yang seperti diatas;

"Jangan lari nanti jatuh." --> " Jalan"

" Jangan main nanti rosak" --> " Main elok-elok."

"Jangan pandu kereta laju2 nanti boleh kemalangan" --> " Pandu hati-hati."

"Jangan cakap kuat-kuat nanti orang marah." --> " Cakap perlahan-perlahan."

Think about the consequences later.

* Kata-kata itu doa ya. Kata-kata ibu cepat dimakbulkan tuhan. So mothers, please be careful with your words :)

In other words, dont let 'worry' stop us from doing things. If it happens, it happens. We will cross the bridge when it comes. Worrying do takes up a lot of a person's time.

Lets try not to waste time by worrying things that we are unsure of.

=)

"Buat apa-apa ingat tuhan kata apa"- fynn.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jtuOAgO9vQw

I've been thinking about sayings,quotes and wisdom words A LOT lately!

1. Its hard for people to be honest to someone if that person can't accept honesty.

This is FACT!

Example:

A guy tells the truth to a girl. About his whereabouts. Who is meeting up with. Be it meeting up with guy or girl friends.

Girl gets upset knowing boyfriend also meet up with his gal friends. Starts blaming, arguing, feeling sad, etc. In short, girl friend jadi GEDIK!

There are cases like the above, makes the boy friend feel like his girl friend cant seem to accept his honesty. Due to that, boy friend starts to NOT tell the truth to girl friend to not make her upset.

*Think about it. It is true. People who cant accept honesty may not stand people being honest to them.

*Lets try and be rationale. Feelings are individual. A person can say anything and it is up to us how to take it.

Bukti feelings are individual:

Saya rasa Julia Roberts lawa.

Ada yang rasa tidak.

Maka, feelings are individual. Its up to a person on how they WANT to see a picture.

2. Satisfaction will come when we do things to please ourselves. Elak jadi bodoh jom.

Sampai mati ke nak puaskan hati orang? Kalau nak puaskan hati orang kerana Allah tak apa. Tak salah. Aku tak halang pon. Memang lagi bagus pun.

Tapi, nak gembirakan/ puaskan hati boyfriend sedangkan diri sendiri tak gembira? - This is a no-no situation.

When u are in a relationship, u need to set your limit. U need to know and tell your self how much you are willing to give and how much you are willing to get hurt when u are in a complicated relationship. U should not, SHOULD NOT work hard like shit if you are only trying to satisfy a person and make them happy while you suffer like hell. Friendships should be a 2 way thingy. So is a relationship.

Always always ALWAYS love yourself first and people will love you for it. People will love the way you are happy. Will admire you for taking a good care of yourself.

*Things are basic. Love ourself more and people will love us for it. We dont have to change to satisfy a person. We change to satisfy ourself and we will not be disappointed.

3. Feelings are individual & when it gets too individual, u just don't feel like opening up too much.

This, is a VERY complicated feeling. For me at least. Trying to be rationale in most things are not easy. I'm still learning. You see, when I tell myself not to blame the other party due to my up-set-ness, I feel more more and less dependent on the person. I began to believe that I'm more in love with myself than the other person. In a way it IS good to be in love with yourself more. Somehow, it is scary to be feeling the gap accuring between me and the other party. This gap feeling is there because I'm less dependent on that person.

Oh well, i'll just go with the flow. Apa-apa pun, I still love you friends and loved ones =) Loving myself more does not mean i dont love the other people around me.

4. Mother: kalau untuk kebaikan kita, peduli orang kata.

This one said by mother- i LIKE.

Mother: Biar la orang kata kita tak lepak ke. Rumah kita kecil ke. Kita pilih kasih ke. Kita kedekut ke. Kalau kita tak buat benda salah, peduli orang kata. Mereka kata yang tidak sama dgn situasi kita sedang hadapi cuma kerana mereka tidak tahu. Sabarkan. Layankan saja. On the other hand, always try to improve. True friends will understand. They will.

Aku

Ego.
Apahal kau turun?
Dah aku pacakkan kau tinggi.
Kenapa mau turun lagi?
Duduk situ, lepak dulu.
Tunggu dulu. Belum aku mahu kau jatuh.

Agghh)(*&)#^#!!

Judging/ expecting

Elak dari memberi tanggapan pada orang.

Kita tak tahu orang lain macam mana.

Just because they could be 99% normal or 99% same like us, doesnt mean they are TOTTALY same like us. 1% diifference means a lot.

Lets do this people, lets separate a person's bad behavior with the person itself. Bad behaviors does not mean a person is a bad person. it DOES not mean that way people.

Tuhan beri otak untuk fikir ya, bukan untuk cakap kosong.

Elak dari berlagak. Everyone have bad behaviors. Its a matter of visible and invisible ja.

INGAT. Kita tidak tahu tentang semua orang. Kita tidak tahu. Mahupun kita kenal dia 99% mahupun 100%

Elak dari menggunakan perbezaan fikiran menjadi sebab pergaduhan/ menjauhkan.

If we think again, there are just PLENTY of reasons out there for us to fight and get separated. Be smart people.

A person has tought me- we do things by just doing it and should not hope anything in return. Not even expectation. I am FAR from becoming this type of person but i would like to try and for all of your information, trying doesnt mean being success at the first ry.

Insyallah.

A gentleman. Example; Nabi Muhammad S.A.W

bila rasa marah, fikirkan.

bila nak lepas rasa marah, sabarkan.

bila bercakap, aturkan.

bila nak pukul, tahankan.

bila rasa sayang, tunjukkan.

bila mencintai, katakan.

bila perlu bantuan, lafazkan.

bila rasa tidak mampu, kongsikan.

bila bermasalah, sebutkan.

bila diperlukan, dengarkan.

bila diperlukan, bantukan.

bila bercakap, jujurkan.

There are reasons of why Eve is made of Adam's rib.

Adalah kerana, yang lelaki harus menjaga perempuan.

Bukan memukul perempuan.

Lelaki yang harus mengajar perempuan.

Bukan merendahkan perempuan.

Lelaki yang harus memlihara perempuan. Ajarkan cara cakap yang baik.

Bukan tengkingkan.

Memberi contoh baik, rajin, sabar pada perempuan.

Bukan memakikan.

(This below ones are from a friend, Muhammad Nazmi)

Hawa diciptakan dari rusuk kiri

Bukan dari kepala untuk disuruh agungkan kau

Bukan dari kaki untuk di alas

Bukan dari bahu untuk dipukul

As of ladies, ini BUKAN permit anda untuk ambil kesempatan. Benar.

Kecoh for what?

Perlu ke buat kecoh tentang kemasukan orang ke Islam?
Itu urusan mereka dengan tuhan. Biar dia settle dengan tuhan. Kita bantu saja dengan memberi contoh yang terbaik.

Mentaliti apa yang mengukur baik buruk orang dengan HANYA SEMATA tengok pada agamanya?

Allah S.W.T beri otak untuk fikir bukan untuk cakap kosong.

Untuk pengetahuan anda semua, Islam adalah milik semua. Di United Kingdon ada orang Islam. Di Jepun ada orang Islam. Di China ada orang Islam. Di United States ada orang Islam. Di Jerman ada orang Islam. Islam bukan milik orang Malaysia saja ya kawan-kawan.

Sila guna otak untuk berfikir ya.
Islam tak pernah ajar untuk jadi- Selfish.