Friendship memang beautiful

I heard that best friends/ good friends will always be there when we need them. Happy or sad.

Today, i finally know what the phrase means.

Mum says, a true good friend/ best friends are:

wlaupun dah setahun tak contact, bila kita call untuk menceritakan tentang hal2 gembira.. they are there to listen.

walaupun dah setahun tak contact, bila kita call untuk menceritakan masalah2.. they are also there to listen.

a good friend wont merungut " ohhh tiba2 ja cari aku, ni mesti dah hilang kawan. baru nak cari aku".

Lama tak contact tak bermakna dah lupa. Tak bermakna dah tak cinta friendship.
Time leads the world. Hormones change. People will lead their own life differently. Different careers. Different family. etc.

*Mum, for the definition of friendship u told me, i am now not mad anymore to my best friend.

*I miss youuu

Hati-hati

Hati-hati dengan orang yang macam plastik luarnya tapi berhati kaca.

"i hate u"

One can be a bad husband but a good father.

One can be a good son but a bad bad friend to others.

One can be good to the mother and not the father.

One can hate their parents but love their siblings.

One can be bad to them self but caring to the other people around them.

One can be a bad son but a good friend.

One can be a good girl friend to her lover but a bad girl friend to her friends.

*So why hate a person if one can be bad in a way but be good in another way?

**The real thing that we people should learn is that, we should just dislike a person's bad attitude and not the individual itself.

Laskar cinta, sebarkanlah benih benih cinta
Musnahkanlah virus virus benci
Virus yang bisa rosakkan jiwa
Dan busukkan hati

-above lyric is from the song Laskar Cinta by Dewa19.

See how HATE is a very dangerous virus?

Bersih, baru Quran boleh sentuh hati

Yang saya tulis ni, saya ambil dari buku yang saya baca. Tajuk buku is Things in Common written by a local writer Syed Akbar Ali.

I love this book.

Apa maksud bersih sebelum pegang Quran yang selama ni orang berkata-katakan?
Kenapa orang tanpa wudhuk dan perempuan yang datang bulan tidak dibenarkan pegang Quran?

I have never really understood the 'common' answers to the second question.
Kenapa orang datang haid tak boleh pegang Quran? Kenapa orang tak ada wudhuk tak boleh pegang Quran?

The Quran says:
Which none shall touch but those who are clean(mutaharun)' .
-Surah 56:79

which means, those who are not 'pure' will not be able to grasp ( or touch) the meaning of the Quran.
The word 'pure' in the above context means hati yang bersih.

hanya kerana perempuan datang haid, dia tak boleh pegang Quran?
hanya kerana kita tak ada wudhuk kita tak boleh pegang Quran?

Imagine this, if we cannot physically handle the Quran without performing wudhuk, then how are the non Muslims EVER going to be able to read the Quran? How?

Macam mana kita nak attract diorang kalau kita wajibkan diorang untun mengambil wudhu'? It might turn them off.

Islam is easy.

Beeeetuullll

Betul kata mak aku,
syarikat local bekalan air will arrive n check our pipe when pig flies.

Betul kata Wak Jib,
if u live your life without making judgements AT ALL, you are living your life dangerously.

Betul kata ayah,
we have to be Smart n Cekap!

Betul kata ibu dan ayah,
bila drive sila amalkan Mirror, Signal, Manouver.

Betul kata Khairunnisa,
byk lagi ikan dalam air ;)
( ni masa tahun 2005)

Betul kata Izwancik,
jangan samakan seseorang dengan orang lain.

Betul kata Izwancik,
kalau tak pasti tentang sesuatu perihal orang, jgn main kataa ja.

Betul kata ibu,
dont say a word that you dont understand the meaning.

Betul kata ayah,
first gaji, belanja ibu.

Betul kata Hannah,
tak payah tention2 buuuat ajaaa.
(tapi bila kenyataan ni keluar dari mulut dia, susah saya nak terima tapi terima juga la)

Betul kata Izwancik,
kalau kita tak tahu, jangan lagak tahu.

Hehe.

Love you people.

Arts of teaching children

Be yourself. Someone else is taken.

:)

Gembira (terbaru)

Aku tidak mengharap lagi
Apa rasa yang mau kau beri
Aku tidak menunggu lagi
Rasa cinta yang konon pernah ada

Dan bila kau mula berjanji
Telingaku separuh mati

Aku mendengar, aku mencari
Bila hati terguris lagi
Aku mahu, dan bila ku perlu
Ku lihat kanan tapi tiada kamu

Dan bila ku tidak mencari
Kamu mahu cepat kemari